Sexy Lingerie Your Secret Source of Femininity

Every woman has different kinds of lingerie in her dresser drawers. We pull out the fabulous ones for a special occasion, certain date nights with our significant others or simply because we have run out of the others and it is past time to do laundry. And, if you are like me, you even have a few still with the tags on so you can be ready at the right moment should it present itself.

As women we often get caught up in being every thing to everyone that we often forget to take time out for ourselves, let alone remember to take time out to feel feminine or beautiful and that is part of the problem. This is a problem not only for ourselves but for our husbands/boyfriends/significant others, our kids, or family, our friends and our careers. The reason this becomes a problem is because when we disconnect from ourselves, we also disconnect from everyone else in our lives whether we realize it or not. We just keep pushing and pushing to get everything done, we rarely ask for help as we take on the role of Wonder Woman.

Wonder Woman has becoming known in society as a symbol of women's strength, power and sexuality equality but what we as women tend to forget is that she was a symbol of sex appeal and sexiness. You do remember what her outfit looked like bustier, hot pants and high boots right? When was the last time you could pull off an outfit like that - if ever?

My point here is to remind you that a little sexiness goes a long way. Being sexy is not about in your face cleavage that is hanging out and walking around your neighborhood in hot pants and too tight clothes, there is something in-between that we often forget it's called subtle sexiness. Everyone can add a little subtle sexiness to your life and I'm sure you will be surprised how easy it is to do and will be pleasantly taken back by the results. I know I was after I tried a little experiment.

My experiment went like this, for two weeks I decided I would wear all of my sexy lingerie that I owned just for me and see if I noticed a difference in how I felt about myself and how I related to others. And, I have to say I honestly felt different, carried myself different, felt more confident and feeling this way it led me to take a few more minutes in the morning on my make-up or my hair, I added two workouts that week which only made me feel even more fabulous. The best part was my interactions with everyone in my life just went smoother as I was more gentle which shocked the heck out of me.

So at the end of my little experiment I pitched all my granny panties, all the not so nice ones, all the ones that didn't flatter my figure and now every few months I add a few more really pretty ones to my repertoire. It's like I walk around every day with my own secret source of femininity. What is your secret source of your femininity? Try your own experiment and let me know if it makes a difference in your life.

Lisa Marichal is an Expert Body Image Consultant, Speaker and Writer who helps women and girls realize their own potential and gifts within themselves. You can visit her at [http://healthydoover.com/articles/] to learn more.

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